DO NOT WORRY

  ²² He said to his disciples, “Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat, or about your body, what you will wear. ²³ For life is more than food, and the body more than clothing. ²⁴ Consider the ravens: they neither sow nor reap, they have neither storehouse nor barn, and yet God feeds them. Of how much more value are you than the birds! ²⁵ And can any of you by worrying add a single hour to your span of life? ²⁶ If then you are not able to do so small a thing as that, why do you worry about the rest? [Luke 12:22-26]

The One who I sought was the One who gave comfort.  I would not worry.

I could not control the content or duration of the RCIA class last year.  Nor could I control who in the Catholic world cared or didn’t care about my “insights.”  The Church as the Body of Christ is built of imperfect people, I being chief among them.  Time was on my side.  My husband and I would eventually come to peace on this change in our lives; the years would see to that.

I had made it this far moving toward the Catholic Church.  I could make it to the end.  Calmly, in control, I navigated the days ahead of me, laying my years in the hands of God.

Years…what did that mean for baptism?  Could I wait years to finally be baptized?

Driving down life’s highway, my hand on the gearshift, I felt an odd movement under my feet…a mysterious car feeling…new and unexpected.  It passed.  And I returned to my thoughts.

Baptism?  Never being able to cite chapter and verse, I knew full well the significance of baptism in the life of a Christian.  Repent and get baptized.  Even Jesus, the Source of Faith, consented…no, he didn’t simply consent…he sought out and determined that He would be baptized.  And He was.

And when Jesus had been baptized, just as he came up from the water, suddenly the heavens were opened to him and he saw the Spirit of God descending like a dove and alighting on him. [Mat 3:16]

In all the many years when I thought I had been baptized, I knew my fellowship with Christ was secure.   But what about today?  Sure…I won’t be condemned.  But then what?

The one who believes and is baptized will be saved; but the one who does not believe will be condemned.  [Mk  16:16]

On life’s highway, the movement under the floorboard  under my feet in the car returned…with a sound.  It was not a good sound.  Looking ahead to next year, I decided to ignore it…the sound.

RCIA?  I could wait.  Catholic Church?  I would wait.  Eucharist?  I would have to wait.  But baptism?

My thoughts were jolted.  Another huge bad car noise.  Not again!  We had serviced the car before Easter…and here I was on a long journey…hearing strange sounds and feeling strange movements under the floorboard under my feet in the car.

Grabbing my cell phone, I called our mechanic.  “The car.  It’s making these new awful sounds under my feet.  The car jerks.  I’m going fast, and then the car slows down.  I put the car into drive, but it doesn’t want to go into drive.  It’s like it’s trying to make up its mind.”

“Slippage,” he said.  “The gears in the transmission are slipping.”  When you get home, bring the car in.

Two days later, a lesson from my mechanic on transmissions, and twenty minutes on Google, I learned a lot about the speed of a car.  It can go fast.  And it can go slow.  Changes in speed are handled in the transmission with its gears and fluids and solenoids.

A car can change speeds, but there’s a lot involved in making it happen.  Kind of like people when we change speeds.  Especially like me.

I had programmed my spiritual future for years.  But baptism required a speed adjustment.  Just like my car…I was having problems of my own…slippage in the transmission.

Baptism?  Was yesterday soon enough?  Yesterday?  Tomorrow?  My transmission was grinding.

²² After this Jesus and his disciples went into the Judean countryside, and he spent some time there with them and baptized. ²³ John also was baptizing at Aenon near Salim because water was abundant there; and people kept coming and were being baptized…[John 3:22-24]

That night, my head on the pillow, I kept thinking about the day in the future when I would eventually be baptized.  I did not worry.  But I could not rest.

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When you are disturbed, do not sin;
    ponder it on your beds, and be silent.
Offer right sacrifices,
    and put your trust in the Lord.  [Psalm 4:4-5]

Ten was never far enough for me.  My impulse to anger being what it is.

So I counted to twenty…and twenty times I counted…until perspective set in, and clarity arrived.

Firstly, I wasn’t prepared to enter the Catholic Church, even if I had chosen to stay in the RCIA class.  Given that reality, it certainly was inappropriate for me to meddle in the structure of the program, disrupting the class for those in attendance.  Next year, after Easter, would be soon enough to approach the priest.

Secondly, the Church had her protocol.  Rome wasn’t built in a day.  And now that it had been built, Rome wouldn’t be changed in two days.

Thirdly, a few good things came out of attending the first class.  I could be thankful.  And I could pray for the leaders and catechumens.

Fourthly, I could take time to get my house in order.  I could get my baptism information and be ready for next year.

Time passed, and with emotions finally under control, I picked up the phone, calling the Presbyterian church of my youth.  A woman answered, and I set about asking her how to get a certificate of my baptism.  She took my information and promised to look into it.

A few days later, she called back.  She took pains to confirm with me the details of my family, my relatives and the years of our attendance.  Yes, she had found the membership and baptism records for my aunt and uncle and their five sons.  Apologetically, she said she had no information on my family or myself.  None.  Thus, there was no record of my baptism and no chance of a certificate.

It took a few minutes for this to sink in.  I did my best to ask her multiple times, “Are you sure?”  She was, indeed, having gone over records for more than twenty years.  “Thank you,” I said and put the phone back in the charger.

I sat in silence.  Puzzled.  Either the church forgot to record my baptism…or I had never been baptized.  How could I have been so certain I had been baptized?

Then slowly, a new realization began to develop.  I had never been certain of my baptism.  I had taken it for granted that I had been baptized because I had attended the church for a few years and had attended their confirmation classes for students.

What did I really remember?  Candlelight midnight Christmas services.  Sitting in confirmation class, second row back.  Sitting in the forest under a pine tree on a high school church retreat.  Driving to teen group events in the family Olds.

But I had not one iota of a memory about baptism.  I remembered clearly being “not baptized,” explaining our family Presbyterian/Baptist beliefs to my junior high friends.  “My parents want me to be baptized when I know what it means, and I can make the decision for myself.”  If we had gone the way of the Baptist church in Tennessee, I certainly would have remembered being plunged into the water.

But we were Scottish Presbyterians.  I remembered parents holding their babies over the font for a few sprinkles.  But adults?  I could not picture any adult ever going to the front of the church to be sprinkled.  Never.  Not any adult…including myself.

Had the memory grown dim?  My participation in the teen youth group was short-lived.  Eventually, our whole family quit attending church.  A few years later, arriving on the college campus, I dispensed with faith altogether…for twenty years…God was unprovable, unbelievable and irrelevant.  I had no desire or reason to remember any aspect of my former church life.

Reflecting on the faith of my parents, it started to make sense.  My mother took my sister and me to church as an effort to expose us to church, a duty to educate us about what other people believed.  On Sundays, my Dad stayed home.  Several years of church and Christmas services had assured my Mom that she had done her duty, and we settled back into our loving secular home, respectful of believers and visiting church on occasion.  But there had never been a pressing desire for my parents to seal us as children of God, followers of Christ.

I had no memory at all, ever, of being baptized.  And it all made sense.  Encountering God and Christ as an adult, I had simply plugged that mental hole with the assumption that I had been sprinkled many, many years ago.

First the realization dawned.

Then…the realization sank in.

Thoughts of RCIA faded, receded and disappeared.

Only one thing mattered.

I believed.  I loved Jesus.  He loves me.

I didn’t just want to be baptized.  I thirsted for baptism.  The longing for baptism took over every cell in my body.

 As the deer pants for streams of water, so my soul pants for you, my God. My soul thirsts for God, for the living God. When can I go and meet with God?  [Psa 42:1-2]

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